No behaviours noted today, but frusteration....Oi!

 The therapist kept asking me why I don't confront issues with my husband... Well, one example of a possible reason is:  Tonight I was asking him what he wanted for Christmas, he threw out a few idea's but only a few, as I was going through I waited a bit and asked him again he then proceeded to tell me he was really tired but said it in a tone that was more grating than informing so I just told him "Whatever then...", he then started in with that tone that he takes on when he's feeling 'hurt' (which happens FREQUENTLY, it seems I'm hurting his feelings almost daily and he makes me feel as if I have no right to do that - or have my own thoughts, feelings, opinions, etc...) - He then walked off, told me I was rude.  Now he's in another room, evading the issue which then pisses me off that much more... I hope he goes to his JW thing tonight...